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What I don’t do when I ski

By Mara

When I ski

I don’t feel tired but enlivened, always, by air and movement and the mountain. Pain is my constant companion as I grow older but somehow when I ski it sits comfortably in my back and neck and hips and doesn’t demand I pay it any mind.

Mara Gorman skiing

I don’t wear any makeup. I don’t think about what I look like or how others might see me. I don’t style my hair or worry about wrinkles and thinning eyebrows. I want to look beautiful because I’m moving my strong body gracefully. I know I look beautiful because I’m moving my strong body gracefully. Of course, I know that there are ways to remove my wrinkles and thicken my eyebrows, but that just isn’t a priority for me right now. Maybe when I get a little older, I’ll start looking for things like the beverly hills md thick full brow enhancing serum. That would help me to make my brows bigger and thicker. Mine are currently thinning out, so maybe I would be interested in those serums in the future.

I don’t think about what I’ll make for dinner. My to do list consists of two things: Ride the lift up, ski down. The voice in my head that loves to tell me “I must” or “I should” or “I have to” is silent. I don’t feel as if I ought to be doing something else.

I don’t check Facebook or Instagram. I don’t think about I might be missing out on or how many people are following me.

View from Mad River Glen

I don’t question the fact that I am strong. Instead I marvel at this body I have been given that can carry me joyfully down the side of a mountain.

I don’t forget to say thank you. It is my song, a tune I carry with me and send silently to trees and sky and bird and stone, to all that is known and unknown.

I don’t always do it well. But my reaction is almost always that I’ll do a better job on the next run. I always want to try again to be faster, sleeker, smoother, better, but I also know that on every run I’m fast, sleek, smooth, perfect.

I don’t do it perfectly.

Mad River Glen Skiing

I don’t mind the cold until I do and then I go inside and delight in the feeling of my body resting and warming.

I don’t feel afraid – mostly – and when I do I want to tame that fear or ski right into it and make it submit.

I don’t think about the future, unknowable as it is. When the past joins me it is in a peaceful way, in memories of past days spent on the mountain, of my childhood. When I ski I live inside each moment and each moment pays me a dividend of tranquility.

Mara Gorman Magic Mountain

I don’t resist. I fly, I soar, I sail, I fall, I am free.

What makes you feel utterly at home with yourself? Are you doing it, even in the middle of the demands placed on you by children, work, life? I’d love to know.

Enjoy this post? See some of my other skiing stories

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  1. Alice says

    March 18, 2018 at 9:42 pm

    A post of true beauty and grace!

    Even when swimming, skiing or hiking, I still put my makeup on, but worry that things are out of place from water and perspiration. Then I think of the selfies that I’ll be taking and dutifully draw in my brows and pat on concealor. And I don’t even have Facebook, Instagram or Snap chat accounts!

    You shall serve as my inspiration Mara, for embracing and cherishing myself as is. I want to be as free and courageous and full of grace as you. Until then, my waterproof makeup staples will serve as my security blanket.

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